Wednesday, September 18, 2019

Dating Tips for Women

In this dating tips for women blog post, you will learn why its key not to mention and talk about your past relationships. When you are on a date with a man for the first time, its best to talk about who you are now. He doesn’t really care who you were before or what you did. The same goes for you. If you are considering going out again with this man, why would you be interested in the mistakes he made or the past relationship with his girls friends or wife. It doesn’t define who he is now. The same goes for you. The man sitting across you at your first date sees you for who you are now. If you had a bad breakup or bad marriage, that’s on you, not him so. Don’t put that baggage on him. If you do, the date will be over before it started. Good advice for dating can be in the form of letting your past go and focus on the future. An example would be, you can be the hero of your own movie. This quote came from a famous television personality and basically says that your past does not define who you are today. No way, and that is something everyone needs to remember. Dating is an art, a science that must be practiced all the time until you finally figure it out. If you need conversation starters, then here is a brief list of conversation openers. Depending on what stage of life you are in and what stage of life your date is in, you can use any or all of the following conversation openers. One of the most common dating conversation openers is: “So, thats a really interesting (piece of clothing) tie you are wearing.” You will be surprised how powerful that single statement can be. His eyes will light up, get him to relax and talk about his (piece of clothing) tie. Men love when women notice things like that. “So, how many days a week do you (go somewhere) to the gym. This is another male ego booster. You are probably thinking to yourself why do you have to pay your date complements right off the bat. Well, before you bash this idea, try it. The old saying is if you want to feel comfortable in a situation, give your friend/date/boss the feeling of also being comfortable. If they are relaxed, so will you be relaxed. “What about those (sports team you might follow) NY Jets.” Most guys follow sports and that for sure will relax him and get him to talk and take an interest in you. If you don’t follow sports, do a quick Google search and find out who is the favorite team in your city. A little homework can go along way. Try these few conversation openers and stay tuned for more. Remember, they have 13 short of 4,000 marriages since 1993.